time heals everything

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When I seek comfort, support and compassion from my friends or family, I sometimes hear the proverb: time cures all things. And then they say something like: If you just think about it for a while, and then try to forget it; time will cure it. Just sit down, chill out and take a cup of tea in the meantime.
“Your hart will go on”.
I doubt it. I bet I can find three hundred things time doesn’t cure. Time doesn’t even heal wounds properly. Some wounds are so deep or full of infections that there is nothing time can do. They leave scars and we’ll always be reminded on the pain we’ve been through. Some people don’t have a real immune system or are too old to wait for time to cure it. Like my grandmother; her leg had to be amputated, just because of a blue mark and a little blood. Her diabetic had made her so weak that she couldn’t even fight a burse. And the dark side to it is that: time made it worse. Sometimes she can feel pain in the foot that is no longer there. The phantom pains will not go away, even after the problem has gone. Time may have removed it, but it isn’t cured.
Time kills more than it cures.
Time ages people.
Time runs out.
People can go their whole lives with their heart broken. Time ages the body and makes us forget, but it doesn’t cure anything… Nothing physical and not a lot of psychological things either. I guess that excludes quite a bit of “all things”.
A life without time is not a life at all. Pain is a part of it and time doesn’t fix the problems in any existence. No one is responsible for you, except yourself. Without a will there is no way. You can’t just sit and wait for life to come and go: Let it crush you and then expect it to cure itself by time. It is old water under the bridge or spilled milk. It will never come back and it will never help you to get over any serious issues. Time can’t cure phantom pains, heartache, scars or phobias. My hart will not go on without time, but with a will and an effort. Time is incompetent!